It's a wonderful idea, but the main problem would be figuring out who, among our new members, is a legitimate member, and who has signed up from a spam account. Spammers are a major problem and eat up a lot of Admin time winnowing them out, banning them, and reporting their IP addresses for blocking. Still, we're committed to keeping as much spam as possible off the forum and away from our members, so it's time well-spent.
The only thing I could suggest would be for you to click on the "Members" at the top of the page. You would get a list of new members, and could then check profiles and see if they look like they're "real" or not, if that makes any sense. I agree that it would be terrific if we could do something like this but, as Starfyre said, the Admins like myself are swamped.
The "club" idea is also a good one, but you again have the problem of trying to figure out what is a spam account and what is a valid new member. *sigh* Sorry you had so much trouble when you started, and I sincerely hope that your experience here is better now!
~~Wiccan~~